If you are someone who shares their home with more than one dog, you know that attention can quickly turn into a competition. Even the calmest pets can become surprisingly expressive when they feel overlooked. That scenario plays out in a recent viral video, where one Golden Retriever makes his emotions known in a way that feels both dramatic and endearing.
Golden Retriever is ‘upset’ when cousin gets attention
A Golden Retriever owner recently shared a video on the account @fredandlouthebernerbros showing how her dog reacts when attention is no longer exclusively his. On-screen text reads, “No one is more upset than a golden retriever watching pets be given to his cousin.” From there, the footage quickly proves the point.
In the video, the owner is seen calmly petting a Bernese Mountain Dog, described as the Golden Retriever’s “cousin.” As soon as the attention shifts, the Golden Retriever makes his displeasure clear. He begins to vocalize softly, letting out whimpers that sound part complaint, part plea. His expression does most of the talking, as he looks up at his owner with wide, soulful eyes that seem to ask why he’s been overlooked.
Not content to stay on the sidelines, the Golden Retriever soon takes action. He gently moves between his owner and the Bernese Mountain Dog, positioning himself directly in front. The move appears calculated but harmless, clearly meant to remind his owner that he’s still there and still waiting for affection.
One person joked in the comments that the scene involved “potentially the two most needy for attention breeds.” Meanwhile, another suggested flipping the situation around to see how the Bernese Mountain Dog would react if roles were reversed.
Managing attention fairly is essential to prevent jealousy and stress in multi-dog households. Experts often recommend petting both dogs simultaneously when possible. This can include verbally praising evenly and rewarding calm behavior rather than reacting to interruptions. Structured one-on-one time with each dog can also help them feel secure and valued. With consistency and patience, most dogs learn that sharing attention doesn’t mean losing it.
