Question:
My husband and I are expecting our first child and I’m really concerned that my dog is going to be upset or feel jealous. I want to make sure this transition is OK for her. Can you give me some advice on how to prepare my dog for the arrival of a new baby?
Answer:
Congratulations! What an exciting time. There are a number of things to consider that will help you and your dog with this transition. Dogs “know” something is changing and so your pup is already wondering what’s going on.
Getting your dog ready for a new baby
Just like people, some dogs are creatures of habit and others are more go-with-the-flow. If structure is important to your dog, the upcoming changes to their schedule may pose some problems. If your dog relies on long walks to discharge excess energy, it’s important that they continue to get that exercise. Plan on hiring a dog walker for the first month or so — it will make things easier for everyone to keep your dog on a consistent schedule. If your dog isn’t used to regular walks, you may want to get into a routine of giving them two walks a day. Both the exercise and the consistency will really help your pup out (and will help you de-stress after the little one comes, too).
Also, before the baby’s arrival, gradually introduce your dog to baby-related scents and sounds. Allow your dog to sniff baby blankets, clothes, and toys to become familiar with the new scents. Play baby noises and recordings to acclimate the dog to the sounds they will encounter.
After the baby arrives
After the baby arrives, take the introduction slowly. Greet your dog calmly and give them attention before bringing the baby into the room. Use positive reinforcement to reward calm and gentle behavior around the baby.
Supervise all interactions between the dog and baby closely. Provide constant reassurance and praise when the dog behaves well. Never force the dog to approach the baby or become too close if they appear uncomfortable. Instead, let the dog approach the baby at their own pace.
Continue to spend quality one-on-one time with your dog to avoid feelings of neglect and jealousy.
Remember, every dog is unique, and the adjustment period may vary. With consistent training, positive reinforcement, and a gradual approach, your dog will soon accept the new baby as an important member of the family.
