Dog Grief

Dog Grief

The pain of losing someone dear is no less deep when that individual is an animal. Give yourself permission to grieve the loss. There's no single method or timeline for moving on, and the only rule is to steer clear of those people who are unable to understand. In the meantime, reach out to friends or family who can be supportive. You may want to consider organizing a memorial event for your dog, creating a scrapbook or piece of art, or perhaps even joining a pet loss support group. Some people find that the best medicine is adoption — providing a loving home for another dog in need.

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Bubba,s Momma

Im fixing to take our black lab bubba bear an have him go to heaven.he has cancer so many lumps in side of his precious body. this is not easy. he was born right here in our home. bubba bear was number 13 of 16 pups. my heart is breaking. bubba has brought so much joy to us. their is nothing wrong with how you greive weater you give a service for your family member. dont worry what you do for that precious fur ball. they are our kids. GOD please help each one of us get thru these hard time. please folks go to the shelters an find you a doggie that needs some one to love. we have gotten every doggie from the humane society. they truly are the best. I dont know how long one should griev before getting another doggie. its really up to the indiviual. I just know their are many doggies waiting for people to love them an have a family. may GOD bless each of you an praying for your hearts to be healed. GOD bless/ Sandi

7 months ago by Bubba,s Momma

snowcloud

I lost my Shepadoole Jake when he got out the front door and ran down the street and he got hit by a car. He was the best dog I ever had and so beautiful and sweet. I miss him so much and can't stop crying. It happened two weeks ago and I get more upset as time passes. I don't know how long I'll be able to get over this. I miss him so much.

7 months ago by snowcloud

midge

i just put my pet to sleep last night 7.32 pm . she was part of my soul.heart and love. she was 14 years, i had got her 2 years ago . she need a home , and i need to love . dr told me i need a pet . how can you stop the hurt .

over 1 year ago by midge

astover06

My husband and I just lost our beagle, Molly, early yesterday morning. We only had her for three years. She was only four, still a baby. My husband and I both work retail full-time and being it was black friday, we were into work very early. We decided not to crate her for the night, being it was only a few hours till my husband returned home. When I left for work, she was sleeping under the covers on our bed. Then tragety struck. She somehow got into our recycling box, got her head stuck in a bag and box a Cheez-Its and my husband found her on our bedroom floor when he returned home. I feel like something has ripped away from me. I know I need to grieve, but I need another dog in the house. Not a dog to replace Molly, but a dog to fill an empty hole that's been dug. My husband and I both feel we need to resuce another dog, for Molly, just as we did her. We kow, she would want us to be happy and that we'd never stop loving her.

over 1 year ago by astover06

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